#173: The Joy in Process

I've noticed it can be tempting in the modern world to feel pressured to move quickly and always do what's most convenient for time's sake. But Jaime's piece demonstrates that through outlets such as nature, it is possible to live life a little more slowly and make more conscientious and sustainable decisions. These decisions can then even lead to a heightened sense of self and more room for creativity :) Thanks Jaime!

- Amanda

The Joy in Process

The best part about Ellie's playroom is that it is has a window she can walk up to that faces the woods. Every now and then, we get a close up view of deer. This morning she saw one, pointed and came running over to get a closer look. Then we just stood together and observed for awhile until she was done observing. She said "woof woof" and then went back to play. I really reveled in that experience.

Designing her play room has been so much fun. I have done so much research and made such an effort to only select sustainable pieces that are multi-functional, non-toxic and can be used for a long time. I also supported small businesses when possible. This has meant that each piece I pick up has sentimental value to me (and hopefully Ellie, as I pass on the stories behind why they were selected).

I also selected things that will "make sense" to Ellie. Out of the selection of wooden play animals available, I chose the animals we've seen on our walks: deer, fox, local birds. I'm hoping this will one day evolve into her asking questions...and having conversation about what lives around us and how we are connected and how we take care of one another.

We've also repurposed a bunch of things we found in other areas of the house that weren't getting the love and attention they deserve. In a new spot with new light, I've rekindled my relationship with these items :)

It's been such a fun process!

Awhile ago, I didn't know where to start...I was overwhelmed by the accumulation of toys that were graciously given to us, but that Ellie no longer shows interest in. (We will be donating them).

Then, little by little an idea or inspiration would pop into mind... and I took some time to feel it into creation, without rushing to find a thing on Amazon. I let go of my original desire to "just get it done!"...and I have now found that I am really enjoying the slow process/the experience... and letting the room sort of design itself based on the feeling I get that something truly belongs in there. It's been a purposeful cultivation of a space...and perhaps a relationship between me and Ellie that I hope permeates other areas of our lives.